[ She can tell they are getting back onto the same page and it's reassuring to know they are seeing it the same way. ]

I'm sorry you ever felt jealous, I hope I've done enough to reassure you over the years.

So, with this new situation, what do we do? Neither one of us is obligated to do, say, or act in any way we don't want with another person. So I guess we just need to agree on what's okay and what's not.